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Posts from ‘December, 2009’

On first Christmases together.

Well, that’s that. Christmas is over. We’re back home in Massachusetts. It is very cold. And very windy. And very quiet. Some days, I ignore the quiet and go full blast against the world. But other days, like today, I go along with it. And think thoughts. And after a marginal amount of reflection, I [...]

Happy, merry.

Happy holidays, ya’ll. Here’s hoping there’s loved ones nearby to squeeze, cookies aplenty, and a few quiet moments to reflect on your own heap of blessings. And for those of you who celebrate it, Merry Christmas from me and mine to you and yours. Shelley x

The side effects of marriage: Holiday edition.

One of the side effects of marriage that people don’t always talk about (And yes, marriage does have side effects. You heard it here first.) are how your holidays will change forever. Traditions will get bent and twisted in ways you never thought possible. The norm will get redefined. And as much as you want to [...]

Visitors, blessings.

It has been 12 days since I left my job and since then I’ve been feeling very much in a state of flux. Everything is the same and yet, radically different. All things are possible and yet, everything seems frozen. Under snow and holidays and yes, some measure of fear, I’ll admit. I guess this [...]

Everysingleday friends.

We used to be friends. Back when things Were new and shiny. And easy. And safe. We used to be friends. And not, hi every other week kind of friends. And not, hi every few months friends. I mean we used to be good friends, dear friends. Buddies. Hi, Everysingleday friends. I’d text you when [...]

Hi.

I’m here. I’m alive. I’ve just been busy. You know how ending one of the most major chapters of your life will do that to you. Friday was my last day at work. My last day at the best job experience I’ve ever had in my life. My last day working for one of the [...]

Gift ideas: Letterpress calendars.

Today my Etsy travels took me to the world of handmade letterpress calendars and hoo-boy-lemme-tell-ya, there are some beauties out there. I personally think a beautiful calendar is a great holiday gift. It’s the perfect blend of art and function and there’s definitely one for every style. {2010 Letterpress Desktop Calendar by Kirtland House, $22} [...]

The spirit.

While we were home at Thanksgiving, my parents loaded us up with lots of stuff to drive back up to Boston, including this – the fake Christmas tree we’ve had since I was kid (they’ve been getting a real tree for the past few years). Having no ornaments, I strung it up with white lights [...]

Monday babble.

I woke up this morning to an email from my uncle who lives in New Orleans with a photo of an oyster po-boy from the absolute best po-boy shop in the world (that I know of anyways) (Bobby’s in Harahan), which I’m pretty sure constitutes cruelty to family members and is punishable by law at [...]

On the limb.

As I wind down here at my current job, it’s been interesting to see people’s reactions when I tell them I’m leaving and why. I’ve gotten lots of blank stares and polite nods, which was to be expected. And granted, I haven’t done the best job articulating this whole transition in under this many words. [...]