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Cannoli wars: Mike’s v. Modern.

Any Bostonian worth their salt can tell you where you go to get a great cannoli in this city: Hanover Street, the North End. But we tend to be divided on where you can actually get the BEST cannoli in Boston. The top two contenders? Modern Pastry and Mike’s Pastry. The golden standard has always [...]

Jazz Fest for beginners.

Last year’s Jazz Fest was quite the learning experience for me. My dad and I went together as part test dummies, part recon men. We were trying it on for size. See, ever since my grandma passed away in 2008, my family hasn’t had a concrete reason to go down to New Orleans every year [...]

Sparks, confidence.

If you’ve been reading this blog for a few months, by now you likely know that I left my job in early December to go find my purpose, as detailed in this post. It wasn’t just a job that I left, it was an entire career. A career in the field I studied, something I [...]

On the limb.

As I wind down here at my current job, it’s been interesting to see people’s reactions when I tell them I’m leaving and why. I’ve gotten lots of blank stares and polite nods, which was to be expected. And granted, I haven’t done the best job articulating this whole transition in under this many words. [...]

Giving thanks and giving back.

Good morning! Hope you all had wonderfully filling Thanksgivings, wherever you are. Me, I had two Thanksgiving dinners, which effectively means I’m not allowed to eat for three days. Today, I have a guest post for you from my dear Aunt Nancy, my mom’s sister, who hosted us for Thanksgiving dinner #1 yesterday (and did [...]

Boston wedding venues (that are actually cool).

So I got a question the other day from someone doing research on Boston wedding venues, wondering if  we found any other venues in Boston (as in, other than The Wang Theatre where we got married) during our research that were really cool too. And the answer is yes. While the Wang provided the look [...]

Wise words.

This is from the Quotable’s 2010 color calendar. I saw it in Brookline Booksmith yesterday after therapy and I have to admit, it kind of spoke to me. Actually, it really spoke to me. Wish this was available as a print – I’d be all over it.

On writing our vows and my fear of clichés.

In Times Square last weekend. Photographed with my Nikon D60, 18-55mm lens. Planning our wedding has been an interesting ride thus far to say the least. I’ve gone from loving it to hating it to now having a new attitude toward it. An attitude which has yet to be named. An attitude that is neither [...]

Hoping to land in the middle someday.

Just came across this great diagram on share some candy. Have you seen this yet? This is a fantastic framework for thinking about your career and how to be happy with what you do. When I saw this, it just made sense to me, the idea that the ideal situation is when what you want [...]

One year later, part II: Thoughts on blogging.

This is a follow-up post to One year later. , celebrating my one-year “blogiversary”. My, how things change in a year. Not only has my personal life changed dramatically, not only have I grown as a person, but my attitude toward and approach to blogging have evolved immensely as well. When I started blogging last [...]